In response to the childhood messages that she — like the personality-disordered aunt she supposedly resembled — did not matter, Shifra Malka writes to the core of her struggle to recover her beaten spirit and to build the large life that matters to her.
Addressing the question of what mattering means, of what makes our lives large and when is it enough, Shifra explores these themes through the prism of how the question personally played out in her relationships with her family, her Orthodox Jewish religion, and the American culture focused on appearance, food, and money.
Compassionate and healing to those wounded by similar messages, and energizing for all who want to make their lives large and remarkable, Dare to Matter is an exquisite call to satisfACTION.
“Ms. Malka has an arresting writing voice which immediately pulls the reader in. More importantly, I applaud her way of presenting her own personal story, enfolding it into broader issues of mattering that will enable many, no matter how the details of their own life stories differ, to find themselves in her narrative.”
—Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, Ph.D., Princeton University, philosopher and novelist, 2014 Recipient of National Humanities Medal Award
“A beautifully-written and profoundly powerful work about one of life’s most important topics, namely that we are all created to matter. It helps us all understand how our individual uniqueness is a gift, one we should enthusiastically and joyfully share with the world. Ms. Malka compels her readers to rethink their circumstance and to rediscover how we all possess personal power. I am excited the world will soon be able to experience her fabulous insights. This is, in a word, superb.”
—Brigadier General John E. Michel, author, Executive Director of Skyworks Global
“Shifra’s brilliant writing is compelling, and her insights are keen. She forges incisive links between weight, health, and the deeper issues of purpose and passion to produce a powerful, important chain of reasoning. If ever the case was made that bathroom scales do not measure human worth- it is made here! This is a tale that deserves to be widely told. Many who attend it will be forever affected for the better.”
—David L. Katz, MD, MPH; Founding Director, Yale University Prevention Research Center; President, The True Health Initiative
This powerful message reminds us that we do matter, more than we can ever really know.
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This drawing delights us as it captures the charm of a little girl in too-big shoes. Who has not seen a child try on her mother’s or sister’s high heels, ready to matter?
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